|
So I've decided that this week is pretty much gonna be a wash. When I get sick, even a little bit, I don't have motivation to diet. Sometimes I still work out, although probably not this week. Now, I'm not saying that I'm going to go gorge myself on everything but I'm probably just going to have a "maintenance week." So far I'm averaging 1800 cals a day. So that's alright I guess.
My BF didn't call last night or this morning. Which is weird to me because I figured we'd be spending all of last night on the phone talking out issues that we hadn't had time to cover the last two days. He had been at a work conference Monday and Tuesday. I guess I could have called him? But I had called him in the morning yesterday and with being sick I took NyQuil around 8 and fell asleep waiting for him to call. Since he sometimes doesn't get out of work until 8 I figured he was running behind. Apparently that was not the case. Anyway... if he's doing this because he wants me to think about him it's working. Now I'm a little worried about him. But I'm also a little angry. Emotions are stupid.
Friday Eve! And that's something to feel good about :)
|
1853 kcal
|
Fat: 68.12g | Prot: 130.85g | Carbs: 196.56g.
Breakfast: kelloggs fiber plus, milk. Lunch: shredded cheese, romain, salsa, la tortilla factory multi. Dinner: ranch kraft, romain, green pepper, cucumber, feta, tomato, chicken breast. Snacks/Other: sour patch kids, ice ice, tortilla chips lime, colby jack cheese, TLC Cherry Dark Chocolate, cottage cheese. more...
|
|
 Comments
If he is doing it for any other reason than something came up I think its a jerk move that he didnt call you. I would be angry too.
18 Aug 11 by member: allieaac
|
I can't be that mad really. I could have called him just as easily. And I probably could have called him like I normally do when I drove to work. I'm just stubborn sometimes!
18 Aug 11 by member: kziemianski
|
Ok so I am playing devils advocate but being as majority of my friends are guys I tend to hear the other side of things. He may have worked late - not really an excuse but it happens, or maybe he went home and fell asleep - again it happens, or maybe he wants you to think about him, or maybe he is trying to process things and doesn't know what to say. You are spending a lot of time analyzing your relationship and just because guys are not vocal creatures about feelings and such (well most guys aren't) he maybe doing the same thing... and you are right you could have called him - not that you should always be the one to always call him, but if you are super worried than just give him a call and be like "Hey whats up, how come you didn't call last night?" and if he asks you why you didn't call you can always tell him you fell asleep - not a lie it happened. Just my 2 cents worth of course.
18 Aug 11 by member: pixidaisy
|
I mean if he didnt call because he was trying to be spiteful or make you worry then thats the messed up thing. I agree with Pixi, he could have just fallen asleep or been in a bad mood and not wanted to talk. My issue with my ex is that I was always the one to call and he never wanted to talk and when I called he made me feel like I was bothering him. Like if I was having a bad day and just wanted to call him on my lunch break (he took lunch at the same time) he would make me feel like I was wasting his time. My ex never called when he said he would and got angry when I called him. I guess maybe I am a little bias on the guy calling thing since I just broke up with someone partly because he never wanted to talk. I mean I lived with him but still...I feel like since there is distance between you and your bf the talking is important.
18 Aug 11 by member: allieaac
|
LOL Allie, yes you sound a little bias. No I'm not upset that he didn't call. It was just not in character for him. Generally he calls when he's driving home from work - even if he gets out late. I'm actually in a better mood about our relationship today then I have been. Maybe it was good not to talk to him last night. I did send him a text a little while ago to re-initiate conversation between us in case he was feeling neglected. Like I said, it just wasn't in character for him. That's what confused me more than anything.
18 Aug 11 by member: kziemianski
|
yea.....if hes the type to call then he probably had good reason not to. Glad you are feeling better about it! I did the long distance thing for 2 years and its hard.
18 Aug 11 by member: allieaac
|
| |
|
|
| |
Submit a Comment
You must sign in to submit a comment. Click here to sign in.
|
|
|
kziemianski's Weight History
|