Hi Mary Mel , I hope your well , sorry to hear about Jim and I also offer my deepest sympathy and condolences to you too . My sister was 41 and had stage 3 cancer in the bones and cervical area and in her bowel bless her . We then lost my uncle a few weeks after my sister . The only thing keeps us going is knowing she isn’t in pain anymore , thank you for sharing your support it does mean a lot and I’m here to support you too in this hard time xxx