Sheonamcc's Journal, 10 Apr 11

Sensible eating as a guest.

I don't know about you guys, but I always find it particularly difficult to stick to a calorie limit when visiting friends and family and eating a meal with them. I don't want to seem rude by refusing seconds or dessert, but at the same time I really feel strongly about my motivations for addressing my eating issues in the first place. In my opinion, it's even worse than eating in a restaurant!

This weekend I went to visit my parents, and because all my siblings plus my grandparents were joining us I knew that meant a big family feast would be taking place at some point. Not really ideal! Despite being prepared and bringing my Saturday dinner & Sunday breakfast with me from home, the huge spread put on in the dining room for Sunday lunch was inevitble. The best answer was to get involved and make sure I knew exactly what was going into that food.

So, the ladies of the house made pasta from scratch which was brilliant fun. Who would have thought you would need to many pairs of hands for pasta? None of us had made pasta like this before, so it was a bit of an experiment. Seeing the pasta all laid out and ready to be cooked was a great moment, though. Totally worth it.

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The finished product was absolutely beautiful and totally delicious. It really made the work worthwhile, and eating a carefully considered portion helped me be able to relax and just enjoy it. The leftover pasta has been boxed up for my lunch at work tomorrow. Incidentally, I'm going to count that pasta towards my "cook something proper" goal for the second week of April even though it was a collaborative effort. It might be kind of cheating, but I defy anyone to try to make long fettucine from scratch by themselves!

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Yes, I did end up eating 1000 calories just for lunch. The cheese and oatcakes for dessert certainly contributed their fair share to that number. However, with careful planning I was still able to eat 3 meals and stay within my calorie allowance for the day. That, my friends, is a Win.

I'm going to be eating out at restaurants several times over the coming weeks due to a variety of occasions, but with forward planning there's no reason why it should be an issue. Who said we can't lose weight and still have fun? ;-)

View Diet Calendar, 10 April 2011:
1432 kcal Fat: 62.59g | Prot: 52.72g | Carbs: 161.82g.   Breakfast: Boiled Egg, Oats So Simple - Golden Syrup. Lunch: French Rolls, Garlic Bread, Cheddar Cheese, Scottish Rough Oatcakes, 1/3 Less Fat Cream Cheese, Classic Tomato Sauce, pasta quills. Dinner: Heinz Cream of Tomato Soup. more...
3173 kcal Exercise: Housework - 30 minutes, Walking (slow) - 3/kph - 1 hour, Resting - 14 hours and 30 minutes, Sleeping - 8 hours. more...

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Those kinds of situations are hard. The best thing to do is use portion control and get in exercise if you can. I usually tell people "I'm stuffed and can't eat another bite" if they try to push more food on me. But it's not easy. Just do the best you can in those situations. 
10 Apr 11 by member: Suzi161
food looks yummy...Wow you look so beautiful and you can cook too.... Lucky fella your BF...Have fun visiting your family.... 
10 Apr 11 by member: thecoach
Oh those family lunches are really a hazard to committed 'counters' - I think the only way to cope with it is judging every of those situations when it pop's up. I for one am not going to bring a lunchbox containing salad and wholegrain bread when visiting friends, I would find myself rude since the whole point of eating together is a feeling of sharing and being part of a group, and the person who makes the dinner put a lot of effort into it - I would want to make him or her know I appreciate the work. And Im not going to say no to invites either. At the end of the day we probably know how much we should eat and then just eat slowly and really enjoy the food. No need to say no to second bearings then, except for maybe another bit of salad :) Your friends or family will be happy you enjoyed the food they worked on preparing and at the same time proud of you that you're doing something to loose weight. Doing it the way you described here - all pitching in to make a yummy yummy homemade pastadish from scratch - that's just awesome. And much more fun than not participating :) And the 1000 cal - well, it shows to me that its actually possible to eat out AND stay within RDI when you plan it. Well Done! 
12 Apr 11 by member: Makitsi

     
 

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