Everyone finds motivation in different ways. I was just talking with one of my dear friends last night about how I'm so competitive and find motivation in that on these FS boards. For her it's not a competition; she finds motivation in her own personal growth, increased energy and generally feeling better. It's going to be different for each of us. One thing I have learned over the years is that we don't do anything until we're darned good and ready! My original motivation came from trying on clothes at Ross. I'm pretty sure they have some kind of "fun house" mirrors in their dressing rooms! My other motivation comes from being a single mother and a grandmother. I want to be around - active, functional and healthy for my kids and my grandson - for many years to come. Whatever it is for you, and whenever it comes to you, we're all here for you.