If you had the courage to see that the person you had to give up was not good for the changes you are making, then you have courage and detirmination to do this. You can get the motivation, encourangement, and support from here. Many folks here do not have a lick of support at home, but with the help of the folks here they are successful. So you need to grab your boot straps and pull yourself up, realize that you as a person are worth all this hard work and effort. 100%!!!!